When it\u2019s payday and that direct deposit hits your account, you tend to swipe your card more in a day than your thumb swipes through Facebook, Instagram and Tinder combined.<\/p>\n
The instant gratification that comes along with the hefty price tags on new clothes, trendy sneakers and expensive jewelry is satisfying enough to be considered an actual addiction.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s crucial for us to remember the importance of investing in our life experiences even more so than splurging on the next big\u00a0thing\u00a0from our favorite designer; it\u2019s true that money can\u2019t buy you happiness.<\/p>\n
In fact, it seems the happiest people in this world have found a way to distance themselves from shopping addictions and unnecessary spending.<\/p>\n
Instead, those people put their money toward travel, experience and memories, and it certainly pays off.<\/p>\n
If we all start to invest in our futures more than our sneakers, our lives will be more beautiful than anything money could buy.<\/p>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n Just think about it: At the end of your life, are you going to be reminiscing about the fact that you had an iPhone 6 Plus while everyone else was still using the 5, or are you going to recall golden memories you shared with the people who shaped who you\u2019ve become?<\/p>\n A study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology shows people who made expensive purchases on products rather than experiential investments often devalued a\u00a0new item\u2019s worth directly after buying it, according to the Huffington Post.<\/a><\/p>\n The researchers from San Francisco State University found people do, in fact, understand life is all about the memories we create, but we get so caught up in trends and demand that we cave and make purchases we\u2019ll inevitably regret.<\/p>\n Before they even made the purchases, study participants said life experiences would be more beneficial than buying the latest and greatest items on their wish lists.<\/p>\n After buying whatever their heart temporarily desired, participants soon realized they would much rather have put that money toward an experience, which would have increased their happiness for a more sustained amount of time.<\/p>\n Research from Cornell University<\/a> shows Millennials are tempted to make many of their purchases from\u00a0society\u2019s influence, which makes things like diamond watches and gold chains not only super expensive, but appealing and trendy as well.<\/p>\n We are just as much a product of our society as the shiny, expensive gifts and toys we exchange on a daily basis, if not more.<\/p>\n What sets us apart from our ancestors is that we are enveloped in the world of social media, and just about anything we buy is photographed for shameless self-promotion.<\/p>\n Dr. Thomas Gilovich is a psychology professor at Cornell University<\/a> who has been looking for a link between money and happiness.<\/p>\n He says,<\/p>\n We buy things to make us happy, and we succeed. But only for a while. New things are exciting to us at first, but then we adapt to them.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Gilovich makes a great point here.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying you should never reward a couple of hard weeks at work with a new outfit and a night out, but our larger investments should go toward experiences that create lifelong memories rather than an item that will lose its \u201ccool\u201d factor within a few years (if it\u2019s lucky).<\/p>\nLife is about memories, not diamonds.<\/h2>\n
Focus on what makes you happy, not what makes you famous.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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