It is, to be clear, totally not a joke<\/a>. These breakup offerings are offered by the new service The Breakup Shop<\/a>. Which is an actual thing. And which is exactly what it says it is:<\/p>\n The items for sale on the site, however, include not just writing-based notices. If you\u2019re feeling like your text and\/or email and\/or letter might leave room for understandable and actually probably inevitable confusion on the part of their recipient, you can also hire a breakup phone call<\/em>, placed at the time of your choosing. (It\u2019ll cost you $29, with prices increasing for rush orders.)<\/p>\n It will include select details, provided by the breaker-upper, of what the break-up-ee has done to be broken up with.<\/p>\n It will also include, at the end of the proceedings, an offer for the freshly dumped individual to visit The Breakup Shop\u2019s online gift emporium<\/a>, which includes such time-tested sadness solutions as a Blu-Ray of The Notebook<\/em> ($25), a set of two 18-oz. wine glasses ($15), and a box of Chips Ahoy! Rainbow Cookies ($5).<\/p>\n We know all this because the Motherboard <\/i>writer Emanuel Maiberg recently tested the service out on his girlfriend of five years<\/a>, arranging for a breakup call that cited for its existence, among other deal-breaking flaws, her love of makeup and her distaste for helping out in the kitchen. (The call was, fortunately, an actual test: Maiberg warned her in advance that the call was coming, and the breakup was enacted for stunt purposes only.)<\/p>\n And: The results of the breakup call were \u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n So. Yes. Anyway. Here is the argument for the existence of a service like The Breakup Shop: Closure. The avoidance of the confusion and the anxiety that can come when an official breakup is skipped in favor of a drawn-out process of ghosting. MacKenzie, one of the founders of the service, in fact got the idea for The Breakup Shop<\/a> when he was ghosted upon by a girl he was seeing casually: Rather than telling him that they were done, she simply cut off communication with him. And \u201cthe least you can do is break up with someone and give them that closure,\u201d Evan, The Breakup Shop\u2019s other founder, noted. Which is extremely true.<\/p>\n But, then, here are the arguments against a service like The Breakup Shop: Empathy. Human decency. The fact that your mom raised you so much better than this.<\/p>\n And the fact, too, that this is probably not the kind of thing we, as a society<\/em>, want to do with our new technologies. Last week, in an essay for <\/a>The Atlantic<\/em><\/a>, Robin Sloan argued against the sometimes dehumanizing efficiencies that the app economy is bringing about. \u201cWe are alive,\u201d he wrote, \u201cat a time when huge systems\u2014industrial, infrastructural\u2014are being remade, and I think it\u2019s our responsibility as we make choices both commercial and civic\u2014it\u2019s just a light responsibility, don\u2019t stress\u2014to extrapolate forward, and ask ourselves: Is this a system I want to live inside? Is this a system fit for humans?\u201d<\/p>\n The Breakup Shop may be efficient and, to a degree, even useful. But: Is it a system fit for humans? <\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s revealing that the cofounders of The Breakup Shop\u2014MacKenzie and Evan, who are brothers, based in Canada\u2014offer many, many justifications for their service. It\u2019s even more revealing, though, that they asked Maiberg not to share their full names with his readers. They wanted, they explained\u2014though, really, no explanation was necessary\u2014\u201cto protect their identity.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/section>\n![\"c52dfc1e3\"](\"http:\/\/costaricasex.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/c52dfc1e3.jpg\")
<\/a><\/p>\njust as awkward as<\/s> even more awkward than you\u2019d expect. The Breakup Caller paused at inopportune moments. He dutifully cited the reasons for the breakup, clearly reading from a list. He suggested, at the end, that the dumpee take solace in that online gift shop<\/em>. The whole thing was terrible and horrible and haunting on pretty much every level imaginable.<\/p>\n\n
The Breakup Shop may be efficient and, to a degree, even useful. But: Is it a system fit for humans?<\/em><\/h2>\n