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There are a lot of ideas out there about what a \u201cgood\u201d\u00a0girlfriend should be. A lot of them are wrong. She\u00a0doesn\u2019t need to be pretty, skinny, docile or charming.<\/p>\n

She\u00a0doesn\u2019t need to be girly and coy. And she\u00a0definitely doesn\u2019t\u00a0need to be patient and subservient.<\/p>\n

The only thing a good girlfriend should do is scare the sh*t out of you.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean screaming and yelling, and I definitely don\u2019t mean blackmail. I\u2019m not talking about being loud and intimidating. I\u2019m talking about instilling a lifelong inspiration and drive in you that knocks you on your ass.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about the kind of girl who makes you nervous because she\u2019s not scared of anything. She\u2019s the kind of woman who doesn\u2019t take any sh*t but can dish it at any moment.<\/p>\n

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The girlfriend you\u2019re scared of might be better than you.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s not that she\u2019s<\/em> better, and she doesn\u2019t think that. But she holds you to a better standard than anyone else does. She expects things \u2014 no, not long dinners and David Yurman rings. Nothing like that.<\/p>\n

What she demands can be much harder to give and may seem like a lot more work. But, like any challenge, it\u2019s the kind of experience\u00a0that defines you.<\/p>\n

She demands passion and risk. She expects dedication and big dreams. She asks for the best without any excuses. She asks you for the world because she\u2019s prepared to give you hers.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll quickly realize this woman is unlike any girl you\u2019ve ever been with. She\u2019s the kind of woman who thinks of you not as her boyfriend, but as a friend she respects and cares about \u2014 a person worth fighting for and worth bringing into her world of big dreams and endless possibilities.<\/p>\n

She should make you both nervous and excited. It\u2019s this\u00a0mix of emotion that keeps you on your toes and never settled. After a while, however, you\u2019ll realize that staying on your toes taught you how to dance.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t challenge you, you\u2019ll never get to the next level.<\/h2>\n

You need a woman who\u2019s trying to take your ambitions and dreams \u2014 not your relationship\u00a0\u2014 to the next level. If she cares about you, she won\u2019t spend her\u00a0days coddling and cuddling you. She won\u2019t try to\u00a0marry you right away or lock you down.<\/p>\n

If she really loves you, she\u2019ll get you out of bed and into a world full of possibilities.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t make you nervous, you\u2019ll never face your fears.<\/h2>\n

Respect always carries\u00a0some fear with it. It\u2019s natural to find yourself nervous around someone who has\u00a0high expectations. But those expectations will turn into opportunities, and soon you\u2019ll find yourself doing things you never would have done had you not been convinced\u00a0to climb the mountain.<\/p>\n

She may not have the best etiquette or\u00a0the softest approach, but she\u2019s the only one who was able to get you to the top.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t hold you to standards, you\u2019ll never break them.<\/h2>\n

A good partner should show you both your dreams AND\u00a0your possibilities.<\/p>\n

Before her, you may have known what you wanted to do without knowing how to get there.<\/p>\n

She will pull things out of you that you didn\u2019t know you had. She will take away your ability to make excuses. She doesn\u2019t just want you to have dreams; she wants you to achieve them.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t make you think, you\u2019ll always be guessing.<\/h2>\n

She doesn\u2019t play mind games, but she will make you question everything once you knew.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t about dating scores and petty fights. She doesn\u2019t want to waste time with relationship bullsh*t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never be unsure\u00a0about her affection or unanswered texts. You will, however, wonder how you got anywhere without her.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t push your buttons, you\u2019ll never know how far you can go.<\/h2>\n

While your mother and exes coddled and protected you, she\u2019s out there poking you with a stick. She\u2019s not just telling you that you did a good job. She\u2019s telling you to do better<\/em>.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not wasting time with excessive praise and adoration; she\u2019s out there helping you score the next goal. She may not take the warmest approach, but she\u2019s taking the longest one.<\/p>\n

If she doesn\u2019t inspire you, you\u2019ll never be satisfied.<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re not with a woman who makes you want to be better every day, you\u2019re looking at many\u00a0wasted months and years ahead of you. The kind of woman you should marry is the one\u00a0you can\u2019t imagine losing \u2014 because without her, you lose a part of yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not dependent on her<\/em>, though; you\u2019re dependent\u00a0on the\u00a0constant inspiration and world of possibility that she carries. She\u2019s your guiding light and the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to you.<\/p>\n

Source: Elitedaily.com<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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