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\"Christian<\/a>
Christian Bale, who dadbodded in American Hustle<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Society says it\u2019s unhealthy. Women are trying to shame it. FLOTUS is trying to remedy it with \u201cLet\u2019s Move!\u201dcampaigns\u2026. I know I\u2019m supposed to hate it, but I love a good \u201cdadbod.\u201d<\/p>\n

Despite its controversial attributes, the dadbod (AKA the body type of a man who has a mild beer belly and a so-so relationship with the gym) has always been attractive to me and to many other girls who want to be with a real person, not a Calvin Klein ad.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Even though we know it means they\u2019re lazy beer guzzlers, some of us just can\u2019t help but love the soft pudgy frame of a man with a secure belly.<\/p>\n

What Is the \u2018Dadbod\u2019? What Does It Mean? Click here.<\/a><\/em><\/h2>\n

Long before the now-famous Mackenzie Pearson essay debuted, before Leo rediscovered carbs and couches, before Jason Segal was considered hot, I was in college resting my head on a glorious mound of fleshy midsection, thinking how nice it is to have a man who not only makes me feel comfortable emotionally but also physically<\/em>.<\/p>\n

He was a great body pillow for all those late nights in a freshman twin XL bunk bed.<\/p>\n

Since then, my obsession with a dadbod has only grown \u2014 even spreading to my other girlfriends who now want boyfriends who can hug-and-chug, not carve-and-starve.<\/p>\n

Because a dadbod is welcoming and full on life. It won\u2019t flatten your self-esteem when it takes its shirt off for the first time.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t tell you to sacrifice the party for the gym. It embraces you with open, weak arms and extra-comfy padding. And that sounds a lot better than hitting the pavement.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s sexy because it\u2019s authentic \u2014 there are no two dadbods that look exactly the same. It tells a story that doesn\u2019t start and end with working out.<\/p>\n

We women love dadbods not for what they can be but for what they are.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re not \u201cchubby chasers.\u201d We\u2019re not big-boned whatevers. We\u2019re women who can appreciate a man who makes us feel safe and secure with not only his words but also his entire physical being.<\/p>\n

\"John<\/a>
John Hamm from Mad Men.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

When you need a shoulder to cry on, he\u2019s got a little extra. When you need a helping hand, he\u2019s got a wider hold.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s why women love dadbods:<\/p>\n

1. You don\u2019t feel the need to compete with him<\/h2>\n

Dating a dude with a dadbod takes the pressure off having to maintain your own.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have this complex like, \u201cOh no, I ate four cookies while he went to play pickup basketball. I should really move my ass if I want to keep up.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re on the same team, and you\u2019re working with each other, not against.<\/p>\n

2. It makes you feel better about yourself<\/h2>\n

You don\u2019t have to feel self-conscious that there\u2019s a clear \u201chot one\u201d of the couple, and it\u2019s not you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re having an \u201ceat day\u201d in which you consume everything in sight \u2014 like your open pantry is an open bar \u2014 you won\u2019t have to guilt trip yourself afterwards by comparing your diet to your boy toy\u2019s.<\/p>\n

You can live your life the way you want without the fear that your partner is doing it better.<\/p>\n

\"Leonardo<\/a>
Leonardo de Caprio<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

3. He won\u2019t complain about your lack of tits<\/h2>\n

Because he has his own.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a win-win, really. You\u2019ve always wanted boobs too.<\/p>\n

4. You won\u2019t be worried that he\u2019s going to cheat on you with someone hotter<\/h2>\n

Unless the word about dadbods has really gotten out, or this super-hot girl is super insecure, the chances that he ends up with someone exponentially sexier than you are pretty low. His dadbod is a literal security blanket.<\/p>\n

5. It\u2019s way more fun to cuddle with<\/h2>\n

Who wants to snuggle up against a cheese grater? Just like an actual dadbod, you feel warm and mushy inside.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019ll never body shame you<\/h2>\n

A dadbod takes body insecurities out of a relationship and evens the playing field.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never complain that your body has \u201cgone soft\u201d or suggest having fruit smoothies when you really want a milkshake.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t make harsh remarks about your shape because he\u2019s got his own.<\/p>\n

7. He knows how to have fun<\/h2>\n

He lets both his pants and his personality loose. A man with a dadbod doesn\u2019t get caught up in counting calories or restrict himself from indulging in life.<\/p>\n

He knows how to eat, drink and live<\/em> without worrying about it later.<\/p>\n

8. You both aren\u2019t superficial<\/h2>\n

He isn\u2019t obsessed with his own appearance or yours or even other people\u2019s. He focuses on what matters.<\/p>\n

You can change your weight, but you can\u2019t change your personality.<\/p>\n

9. It\u2019s always a surprise when he gets naked<\/h2>\n

You never know what to expect when he takes his shirt off, which makes intimacy more thrilling, sexy and exciting.<\/p>\n

Rather than accurately anticipating what he\u2019s going to look and feel like, you\u2019re pleasantly surprised every time.<\/p>\n

10. You have something to hold onto<\/h2>\n

Especially during sex, it\u2019s nice to feel the weight of a man on top of you. If you wanted something light and easy, you\u2019d f*ck Casper. It might sound trite, but dadbods give you more to love.<\/p>\n

11. You know what he\u2019ll look like in 20 years<\/h2>\n

That\u2019s the wonderful thing about a dadbod \u2014 it\u2019s the kind of body he\u2019ll still have when he\u2019s a dad. No surprises.<\/p>\n

You know exactly what you are getting and ending up with. And even better, you already know you love it.<\/p>\n

When he\u2019s older, he still won\u2019t look a day over how he looks now.<\/p>\n

12. You can talk about something other than diet and fitness<\/h2>\n

You and a dadbod have much more in common than just your gym and nutrition routines. You can have fun together without worrying about what you\u2019re eating or drinking.<\/p>\n

And you never have to do couple stuff like running and lifting together. He respects that you go at your own pace.<\/p>\n

13. He fills out a suit nicely<\/h2>\n

A man in a suit is hot. A sturdy man in a suit is f*cking smoldering. Blazers and jackets were cut boxy for a reason.<\/p>\n

14. You don\u2019t judge each other<\/h2>\n

He respects you as is and vice versa. If someone tries to tear you down, he\u2019ll throw a paunch.<\/p>\n

15. You can have pizza together<\/h2>\n

Is there any better way of bonding than splitting a whole pie? Women aren\u2019t looking for a hot date who orders kale salad but someone who orders them double-stuffed crust and licks the sauce off their lips.<\/p>\n

The best relationships are always the ones that can indulge together.<\/p>\n

Via Elitedaily.com<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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