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<\/a>A swinging lifestyle is by choice. Many see it as an increase in quality and quantity of sex, enjoying the variety of sex partners, fulfilling a curiosity or need to be non-monogamous. The swinger community often refers to itself as \u201cthe lifestyle\u201d.<\/p>\n
Why do some enjoy this lifestyle? The reasons vary.<\/p>\n
While, according to 2010 estimates by the Kinsey Institute<\/a> \u201cswinging is relatively uncommon in the United States\u201d, the trend nearing the end of the decade is much more common, as younger generations practice \u2018polyamory\u2019, the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners.<\/p>\n For couples to enjoy a healthy swinging lifestyle, there need to be rules. Rules mutually agreed up by the partners. Hard fast rules that can also be changed as the relationship evolves. This is achieved only through open and transparent communication with each other, no fear or restraints to express desires, communicate needs and wants.<\/p>\n There also must be no jealousy. There is no place for insecurity, fear, concern and envy in the lifestyle, There must be complete respect for each other, and always be on the same page concerning their activities within the lifestyle. If not, the lifestyle can destroy relationships and marriages.<\/p>\n It is not easy for the average to accept another person sexually pleasing their partner and bringing them to a climax. And sometimes in ways, they aren\u2019t able to, the respond completely unexpected.<\/p>\n \u201cYou were really into him\/her, ignored me completely,\u201d she says. His\/her response has to be frank and honest or this is where trouble creeps in. This is where one has to reassure the other it was a temporary moment, \u201cplaying\u201d and now you are back to returning to your life together.<\/p>\n\n
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