How to Win a Woman’s Heart

Have you found yourself the perfect girl and you want to help her fall as hard for you as you have for her? Does your girlfriend mean the world to you but you’re not sure if she really feels the same? You can earn her heart with some help from CR!S.

With Ticas – Latinas in general – numbers 11, 15 and 16 are really, really important.

1. Don’t try to attract every woman, try to attract her. Stop dressing and acting like you’re hot stuff. You know the guy: the one that looks like he just stepped out from doing his test shots with a cheesy modeling agency, the one who gives The Look to every hot girl that walks by. Don’t be that guy. Yes, women are initially attracted to this. But eventually they think that you’re more interested in attracting women, in general, instead of attracting them.2. Take care of your body. Taking care of yourself shows her that you can also take care of her if she ever wants to be taken care of. Practice good hygiene and exercise. You don’t need to worry about losing weight, but you should feel healthy and in shape. Similarly, eat a healthy diet!

3. Dress like you mean business. Dressing poorly by wearing clothes that don’t fit or have stains or holes show a woman that you don’t respect yourself (which doesn’t work in your favor!). Dressing in clothes that are out of date (too old fashioned), usually shows that you are mentally stuck in that time and cannot move forward. In order to show a woman that her heart is safe with you, dress in modern clothes that look good on your body, fit, and are clean.

4. Smell great. Women love someone who smells great. Shower regularly, use deodorant, brush your teeth, and you might even want to consider using a cologne or body spray.

5. Be confident. Confidence is sexy to everyone! Show her how confident you are by taking initiative, never talking poorly of yourself, and speaking up for yourself (with other people too, not just around her).

6. Be you. Remember: you are at your best when you are yourself. If a woman truly loves you, she will love you for who you are. When we act like someone we are not, sooner or later we’re not able to keep it up. Even if she would have loved you for who you really are, if she finds out you were faking she will feel lied to and may not love you anymore.

7. Be passionate. You should be passionate in your relationship, but you should also be passionate in your life. Being around someone passionate helps us to be more passionate and engaged in our own life, so we are naturally drawn to people like this and want them in our life more. Be passionate in your life by exploring and celebrating the things that make you happy and unique, without worrying about what others think.

8. Bring the fun! Similarly to how we look for passionate people in our lives, we also like being with someone who makes our life more fun. If you can bring the fun into her life by finding great things to do and new avenues to explore, then she’ll be completely in love.

9. Care for her. Show her that you care. Man up and let your feelings show. Society tells men that they cannot show feeling and women are trained to think that showing feeling just scares men away so no one ever shows any feeling and we all feel terrible! Break the cycle! Let her know what you think and don’t be afraid to show her how much you love her.

10. Give unexpected, targeted gifts. Yes, gifts are a good way to win a woman’s heart, but not just any gift will do. Gifts should show that you care and that you specifically care for her. You don’t want to give a gift that could be just as nice for your ex-girlfriend or your sister. Give a gift that is significant to her.

11. Cook her dinner. When you’ve had a hard day, the last thing you want to do is add insult to injury by having to slave over the stove for half an hour, right? When you know she’s stressed (or even when she isn’t), help her out by cooking her a nice dinner.

12. Ask her for advice and take it. Women, like anyone, want to feel useful. They want to feel like they serve a purpose, especially to people that they care about. Let her be and feel useful by asking her for advice about problems that you have in your life. Importantly, you should take her advice and let her see that you’ve taken her advice.

13. Really know her. Know her for who she really is, not just who you want her to be or the face that she puts on for everyday life. Talk to her about things that matter and find ways to show her that you get her. For example, buy tickets to a play that you don’t care about but that you know she really wants to see.

14. Become a great person to talk to. Women love someone that they can really talk to in a significant way. Someone they can talk to and have it feel natural and not awkward. Be that person and her heart is yours

15. Learn how to turn her on. Be good at knowing how to stoke her fires. This shows her how much you care about her own pleasure, not just your own! Pay attention to what makes her feel good and spend more time focusing on her.

16. Cultivate your sense of humor. Everyone loves to laugh, so show her that you can bring laughter and joy to her life by learning how to make her laugh better and more often. Avoid the cheap shots at others expense in favor of clever comments, as this type of humor tends to appeal to women more.