I see a lot of articles about what men do wrong during sex, but there’s a lot less information – and opinion – on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here’s my list of mistakes for women to avoid.
Laying There Like A Dead Flounder
Sex with a dead fish is not a good thing. Don’t just lie there. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. If sex isn’t pleasurable for you, what’s missing? Try different positions, or locations. Whatever ignites things for you. Don’t just lay there and let us do all the work. No matter how great you look, you need to make some moves.
Not Getting A Bikini Wax
Keep it groomed ladies. No guy wants to have to hack through a forest just to get to your pot of gold.
Having Sex In The Dark
Men are visual creatures. If you really want to turn him on, turn on the lights, or at least light a candle.
Assuming Sex Means Love
Great sex does not mean long lasting love. Spend time with him before taking the plunge.
Not Shaving Your Legs
Hairy legs are a turn off. Keep them smooth and silky.
Expecting Him To Cuddle
Sometimes a man just needs his space after sex. His body shuts down. It’s nothing against you.
Making Him Responsible For Your Orgasm
Leaving it up to him to bring you to climax without at least giving him a map is ludicrous. You know men don’t ask for directions, give him some signs.
IT’S NOT THAT EASY!
Men are not machines. They cannot get instantly aroused on command and maintain it for as long as you like. Have some compassion.
Not Owning Your Own Body
What most men find as a lasting turn-on more than anything is how a woman carries herself. Her confidence. If you are always down on your body, you can do something about it by working out if you want.
Fear of Your Erotic Nature
Many women may fear if they are erotic, they’ll come across as slutty or cheap.
Not Going Down
The worst of the worst. Men love getting head. Period.
Failure to Initiate
Don’t wait for him for sexual encounters, get things started. Men love to feel wanted and what better way that starting things first, making him feel, well, like a man.
The Menstrual Surprise.
Some of us don’t mind, some of us do, I think it’s safe to say all of us would like a little advance warning.
Personal Space
When we’re out of the room, please don’t go through our clothes and wallet. If you don’t want to be treated like a hooker, then don’t behave like one.