Deep down, every man might want a threesome. Threesomes are not like regular sex — for an awesome experience you have to get your partner on board.
Assuming your relationship is not one of a paid-for-sex, following are ways of getting her into a threesome.
Is She The Right Type?
First things first. If she is a very conservative girl who only has sex at night, under the covers, with the lights out and undresses in the bathroom before getting under the covers, you might not be able to successfully accomplish this. So choose the right partner to begin with.
Make Sure Your Sex Life Is On Par
If there are problems in your sex life, this won’t be the way to fix things.
Ask Her About Fantasies
Get really intimate with talking about your deepest fantasies and you might be surprised that a t
hreesome is on her mind too.
Make Sure She Feels Secure
It is very important that she feels secure in your relationship before adding another person to the mix. Tell her you love her more often, do little things that show her how special she is.
Let Her Choose The Girl
It is helpful if she chooses the girl instead of you. This way it is not someone you are personally attracted to.
Really Important, Don’t Act Too Excited About It
If you seem too excited about it, chances are she will see red … red flags, that is.
Be Reassuring
Reassure her that you are not interested in threesome just to have sex with another woman, but to improve your sex life together.
Let Her Think It’s Her Idea
If you propose the idea of a threesome correctly, she may actually think it’s her idea. Something along the lines of “some women are so insecure, they couldn’t handle being with their man and another woman.”
Be Willing To Have A Reverse Threesome
This is the double standard for most guys, not wanting her to be with another man. She probably won’t want to, but you have to be willing to be with her and another man. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
