We see it all the time, bad boys going to where no nice guy can. That’s because nice guys are liars. They pretend to want to be friends with a woman when what they really want is to be lovers.
Women know this and it makes them instinctively uneasy because they can detect the dishonesty and it calls into question the trustworthiness of this person altogether if he is lying about something so fundamental as feelings and love.
Bad boys, however, succeed because they are honest about what they want. They may be crude and rude and socially unacceptable but they are telling the woman of their affection what they are feeling, what they want and have the confidence to do it knowing they are probably going to get slapped — or because it’s so refreshing to a woman to finally hear the truth from a man, perhaps a date.
The fact is, if you can’t be honest about what you want, it’s much more difficult to get it.
Most nice guys can see this, they’ve spend years frustrated, seeing bad boys getting women right, left and centre.
What many nice guys don’t get is that being a bad boy doesn’t mean having to be mean, insulting, rude, offensive and mean to women. No, just being honest.
“Look I’m not looking for another friend, I have many women friends. What I want is…”, is a line that has worked for me best. Yes, I am the nice guy with a bad body attitude.
It may seem like a line, the big difference is that the line is honest and to the point. The other is, well, just a line.